Saturday, 5 March 2016

Is Adoption An Option?



Adoption Trail (2016)

      Adoption over the years has become more popular than in previous years, making it very important to understand the different policies (globally and nationally) surrounding the concept of adoption. It is important to remember to carefully reflect and consider the moralities surrounding the concept and how it is presented.

      To some Adoption is seen as a reproduction technology, since it allows parents to have a child that they are incapable of having due to several factors. However, to some individuals adoption is seen, as a form of child saving. Some see adoption as child saving because most of the children adopted international are living in harsh conditions. Adoption gives them the chance to live in a fit environment because children deserve the right to normal development, both materially and spiritually (Wells, 2015).

     Personally, I see adoption as both a reproductive technology and a form of child saving. The reason is because I know when I try to have a child, I may not be able to bear my own. Adoption may be one of the options for me to ensure my dream of having a child. Child saving is being able to remove children from an unsafe or unfit environment, the adopter  is presenting and providing them a fit home for the chance of a normal development. However, we need to remember that adoption has changed over the years, especially the policies and discourses surrounding it. I would like to hear your opinion on whether  adoption is helping  children, families,  society, or all of them?

Night Light (2016)
     This article entitled International Adoption: Saving Orphans or Child Trafficking demonstrates that the concept of international adoption has not fully changed, there are the positive stories that are saving the children and have children's best interest in mind, but there are also those negative stories of adoption where the children are abducted from their families. After reading this article what do you think the governments can do to stop these negative stories from happening in the future?

Pintrest (2016)
     The meaning of adoption has changed drastically over the years, as in the past adoption was to preserve the family line, it was usually adolescents and adults being adopted to continue the family. In the past the interest of the child was not considered (United Nations, 2009). An example of the past policies is the debate of Child adoption in Ireland during 1949 till 1999. Adoption policies were in favor of the mother having all of the rights, and were formed to ensure the nuclear family stayed the norm of society. Therefore, these policies shape both the traditional and standard views of the concept of children, family structure, and the human rights of individuals (Shanhan, 2005). This shows, that adoption was not always seen as a form reproduction technology and a form of child saving. In the past adoption was being used to ensure that the social construction of family life stayed intact. However, present day policies surrounding adoption have the child's best interest in mind. According to the Massachusetts Adoption of Children Act (1851) the child whom is fourteen years of age or older must consent to his or her adoption. If the child's parents, parental or legal guardians are living they must consent to the adoption. If there is no parent, parental or legal guardian the State must consent to the adoption (United Nation, 2009). This policy is in the interest of the children, since it allows them to consent at a certain age. Lets look at how the process of adoption has changed.

     The first step of adoption is the parents giving their child up or the child losing both parents, parental or legal guardians.The reason for putting a child up for adoption has also changed, back in Ireland in the 19th century the mothers would put a child up for adoption if they were unmarried (Shanhan, 2005). However, in the present day the most common reason children are put up for adoption is due to young mothers who do not feel they can offer the child a fit environment (United Nation, 2009). Adoption is now being promoted in many different countries as a key strategy to meet the needs of children, this includes international adoption and local adoptions (United Nations, 2009)

     According to the United Nations (2009) there are over a quarter million of children and youth adopted every year worldwide. 

       This clip discusses the laws  behind adoption in the United States and why the woman in the video decided to choose adoption. However, this talks about open adoption, which allows the birth parent to still be involved in the childs' life. Do you agree with open adoption?

    Overall, adoption is trying to save children and give those families the child they want. However, the process may not be perfect and there may be some negatives, but do the negatives outweigh the positive? I believe in adoption fully, which includes international and opened adoption because I feel that these children are being given a chance.

To Learn More About the Adoption Policies Check Out This Link: United Nations Trends and Polices (2009)

5 comments:

  1. Hey Tyra!

    Adoption (as you mentioned) is extremely controversial, and my personal list of pro/cons definitely depend on the context in which adoption is being used. Similar to the article’s standpoint, I believe that adoption should be taken very seriously, as you are taking a child away from their culture, home, and family.

    I really enjoyed the reflective questions throughout the article. Not only did your post give me your opinion and facts to back it up, but also gave me pause to think about what I personally thought of the topic.

    In some situations (such as Lemma in the article) the idea of adoption can be mirrored as kidnapping. In these situations we really get close to the idea of child saving which isn’t always the typical "Superman swooping in to save the day”. I personally struggle with whether anyone has the right to take a child away from their culture and family, to a “better” life (which is a Westernized concept that we are more fortunate than others).

    Overall I thought your article was very well thought out, with many references to back up your points. What I would’ve liked to see was a bigger discussion of your standpoint on the topic, I would be very interested to hear your complete take on adoption.

    Great job!
    -Katie P

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    1. Hi Katie,

      I am glad you enjoyed my blog post, as I feel that adoption is great if it has the child interest in mind, and everyone agrees to the adoption. I feel that when the child is kidnapped from their family and culture it is not right in anyway.

      Thank you,
      Tyra

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  2. Hi Tyra, great post. I agree with your point that adoption is both used to "reproduce" or create families, and as a form of child saving. I think that as long as you are bringing a child into a loving home who needs to be cared for, it doesn't really matter what the reasoning is. To answer your question about whether adoption is helping children/families/society, I would argue that it is helping children as long as they are being brought into a safe environment with caring and equipped parents. It would be different if the parents weren't a good fit for the child, but I know that the adoption screening process is very intense so hopefully that weeds out anyone who would be an unfit parent. Adoption also helps families, by giving people who can't or choose not to have their own kids a chance to start their own family. This is a great option for same sex partners, people with reproductive problems, and single people who want to have kids on their own. Regarding your question about open adoption, I think this is a very tricky situation, because while open adoptions can be great they can also cause problems for the biological parent(s), adoptive parent and child. At the end of the day, whatever is the best decision for the child should be taken into consideration, which is easier said than done because children are not given a voice in the adoption process. I know that there has also been great controversy over international adoptions as you pointed out, especially in cases of celebrities such as Madonna or Angelina Jolie who have gone through international adoptions very publicly. As Professor O'Neill pointed out in lecture, these celebrities are essentially using their fame and money as a trade for these children, who are being taken out of homes with possibly perfectly capable and loving parents. In my opinion, adoptions should be for children who need or want it. I feel that children's opinions on what should happen to them should be taken into consideration somehow, although realistically it would be tricky to assess whether the child is capable of making that decision for themselves. Do you think that children should have rights surrounding adoption?
    Thanks,
    -Courtney

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    1. Hi Country,

      Yes I believe if the child is old enough and speak they should have the rights surrounding adoption. Now for newborns that are put up for adoption it is more of tricky situation because they cannot speak, however, if the parent is putting them up for adoption because they know the child will be in unsafe environment I am okay with that. But if the child is sold for money, and do not know where the child may go I do not agree with that. Therefore, it is a very complex situation.

      Thanks,
      Tyra

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  3. Hi Tyra,
    Very interesting post! From reading your post I learned a lot more about adoption that I did not know. I agree with you that adoption is seen as child saving because it is a way for the parents of the child to give the child a better life then they could provide themselves. It does give the children a chance to live in a fit environment, I could not agree more.

    When stating the question whether adoption is helping children, families, society or all of them, I believe that adoption is helping all of them, because it helps the children have a better life and more fit environment. Families it helps give families options if they are not in a stable environment to help provide for their children, they can always consider adoption, and if that is the right choice for them, it will help make their lives more positives. Adoption makes society a better and more fit place for children to grow up. It makes the society more fit and supporting place for children if they are adopted or not.

    I really enjoy the video you provided in your post, it really is a way to connect with people emotionally and make people realize the feelings individuals go through while discussing giving up their child for adoption.

    Over all I enjoy your post, it was really informative and a great read!

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